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Koreans and Americans have similar mindsets. However, Koreans tend to lack self-esteem, which makes them reveal everything, while Americans have strong self-esteem, so it’s not as obvious. On the other hand, Europe and Japan share similar positions. In this context, the United States and South Korea also share a sense of inferiority. Both the United States and South Korea have a deep sense of in..

Some experts belittle clients by treating them as if they are incapable of understanding even simple concepts, often as a way to assert dominance or make themselves feel superior. This behavior is condescending and can be very demeaning. It often involves making clients feel stupid or inferior and then "solving" something easy for them, as if they need help with the basics. This tactic can be us..

Don’t fuss or create a false sense of difficulty for "easy concepts" everyone understands Some misuse "The Feynman Technique" on others (not their students) by teaching concepts they don't fully understand. Because they regard 'concepts that others can easily understand' as very difficult, they mistakenly believe that others will struggle with 'understanding basic, easy concepts' just as they do..

The Feynman Technique involves "studying as if teaching someone else." This method deepens comprehension and aids in retaining difficult concepts. By explaining concepts, learners identify gaps in their understanding and revisit those areas until they can explain them confidently. Essentially, the act of teaching—or imagining teaching—helps deepen comprehension and retention of difficult concept..

In many cultures, including China🇨🇳, there is often a strong emphasis on learning from others, respecting tradition, and valuing collective wisdom. This focus can sometimes lead to following established paths or drawing from the experiences of others. However, trying to replicate someone else's experience can be like chasing shadows. Attempting to recreate another’s experience can lead to disapp..

Jeffrey J. Piccolo filed a wrongful death lawsuit after his wife, Dr. Kanokporn Tangsuan, died after she consumed food containing allergens at a restaurant in Disney World. Piccolo is seeking damages in excess of $50,000 pursuant to Florida’s wrongful death act, in addition to mental pain and suffering, loss of income and funeral expenses. According to court papers, the medical examiner’s invest..

Criticism Can "Provoke Defensiveness" and "Cling to Behaviors" Rather than Encourage Change Sometimes, high levels of criticism might lead to defensiveness rather than constructive change. People might continue their wrongful behavior out of a sense of being overwhelmed or attacked. Some individuals, when faced with stress or panic, may become paralyzed and unable to solve problems effectively. ..

Focusing on accumulating wealth and high-end possessions can be more worthwhile than chasing someone else's advanced experiences that don’t directly relate to you. The pursuit of luxuries or valuable assets offers an "advanced experience" that corresponds to others' experiences while remaining realistic. Rather than trying to replicate or draw from someone else's past events that you weren’t inv..

Being a step behind means focusing on outdated issues or missed opportunities. Trying to claim rights or benefits based on past events unrelated to oneself is like attempting to replicate a play from a previous soccer game in which you didn't participate. Just as you can't take credit for or repeat a move from a game you weren’t part of, you can’t base your current claims on actions or scenarios..

The way I deal with both good and bad emotions is very consistent and clear. I have a structured method of managing my emotions, treating them almost like 'materials(resources)' that can be consumed, protected, or worn out over time. This is a strategy I've developed over time. I actually learned this method in childhood, and now it’s deeply ingrained. I regard my emotions as a kind of 'material..

My preferences and tolerances have changed significantly over time, especially after experiencing discomfort or pain beyond a certain threshold. When the summer I enjoyed started to cause me pain and discomfort, my perception and feelings about it changed. After repeatedly experiencing extreme heat and finding it increasingly unbearable, my brain began to associate heat with discomfort rather th..

How does society view intelligence and creativity differently at various stages of life? When someone is young and demonstrates the ability to grasp 'existing concepts' or 'innovate in their own way' that seem beyond their years, they are often celebrated as a "genius." The young genius appears to be discovering or inventing something new, even if it’s already established knowledge. In other wor..

Spain's spiritual and cultural landscape is truly unique, distinguishing it from many other European countries. The country’s traditions are particularly notable because of their blend of diverse regional influences and a rich history, including cultural influences from the Celts, Romans, Visigoths, and Moors. Spain is known for its vibrant folk traditions, which include specific healing herbs, ..

I am highlighting two key considerations for middle-aged or older individuals when interacting with younger people. First, Be Mindful of Verbose Self-Expression Due to Inner Criticism. Middle-aged or older individuals might over-explain themselves, driven by inner criticism or self-doubt. This can stem from a heightened awareness of their own perceived shortcomings or a fear of being misundersto..

How Can One’s Mutual Value Be Judged Based on How Others Treat Them, Especially in Disrespectful Ways? Here's a corrected version of your sentence: Some individuals judge mutual value based on how others treat them, even if it’s in an exploitative or dismissive manner (attitudes that involve taking advantage of others).🤭 Generally, people with a strong sense of self-control and taste are likely ..

Focusing on Developing Personal Values and Capabilities, Rather than Being Swayed by the Barnum or Pygmalion Effects. I have strong feelings about people who seem overly influenced by the Barnum effect or the Pygmalion effect. I believe that these effects can lead to unrealistic self-perceptions or expectations, whether directed at oneself or others. The Barnum effect refers to the tendency for ..

How Defending Against Inner Criticism Can Unsettle Others Who Are Not Judges. People are not judges, and the world is not a court. How do middle-aged or older individuals, particularly in some Asian cultures, express inner criticism or self-doubt about their achievements and qualifications? In many cultures, including some Asian ones, there is an expectation of achievement that comes with age or..

The term "sexy" is often misunderstood or reduced to superficial attributes like appearance or clothing, leading some to associate it with something vulgar or cheap. However, true sexiness is more complex and should be linked to qualities like vitality, confidence, and positive, healthy energy (stamina). Since sexiness is related to reproductive energy, I believe the concept should be seen as po..

I prefer to have access to a wide range of information and then use chunking as a method to break down and organize that information. Of course, this all should be under the premise that there is no pressure to study for a specific test or memorize facts. When not focusing on test questions or rote learning, I value understanding the information deeply and broadly, then synthesizing it in a way ..

Trying unexpected combinations can sometimes lead to surprising discoveries, just like the one I experienced today! It's fascinating how combining flavors can change my perception. I usually don’t like the smell of vanilla, so I don’t even eat vanilla ice cream. But today, I tried vanilla ice cream mixed with perilla oil🍨, and it was so delicious. The nuttiness and savory notes of perilla oil ba..

Traveling to places where everything is unfamiliar can offer a mental escape, providing a break from the usual routines and pressures of daily life. It’s a chance to immerse myself in the unknown and feel more present as I navigate a world where everything is new and surprising. I usually enjoy traveling to Western countries or visiting ocean resorts as my travel destinations. But sometimes, I g..

Just as wild animals or stray cats may exist on the fringes of human society, there are people who may behave in ways that are predatory or opportunistic, much like these animals. These individuals might take advantage of others when the opportunity arises. Just as one wouldn't intentionally provoke a wild animal or approach it in a way that could lead to harm, it’s important to be cautious arou..

An unloved child who experiences emotional neglect might develop a different understanding of common entertainment tastes compared to their peers. As they grow up, this divergence can shape them into unique individuals with distinct preferences and perspectives. Most research shows that supportive parenting generally leads to better cognitive development across all areas. However, my idea is tha..

I have a hobby of traveling abroad. My enthusiasm for walking and exploring new places while traveling is a great way to experience different cultures and stay active. Because I don’t go out or walk much in my country, when I travel abroad, I spend a lot of time outside with a 'compensation mentality'. If someone goes with me on a foreign trip, they might think that we are undergoing ‘combat tra..

I emphasize the intricacies and potential perils of attempting to replicate the internal dynamics and processes of a high-value business from an external standpoint. First, high-value businesses have complex internal systems that are difficult to analyze and understand from the outside. These systems include nuanced, behind-the-scenes processes influenced by a variety of factors, particularly ec..

Experiencing a lot of inexperienced and rude people often leads to an abundance of ‘thoughts.’ These thoughts are not just idle musings or abstract philosophy but rather the process of building personal logic to deal with challenging individuals. In other words, thinking becomes a form of survival and protection. This kind of reflective and defensive thinking helps to develop strategies for copi..

I believe that adults, regardless of their formal education or intelligence level, possess basic logic and a sense of what's relevant to their survival. Some people communicate complex issues to adults, often oversimplifying or distorting the facts as if they were addressing children. However, when treating adults, it is necessary to respect them by presenting complete and accurate information, ..

I watched the movie "Bird Box" with a different perspective. My viewpoint is that the world appears "evil and dirty" in a mother's eyes. A mother faces harsh realities and constant dangers while trying to safeguard her children's innocence and well-being. In the movie, I regard "children" as "birds" because they symbolize innocence and Bounce(unpredictability, potential). The world in the film i..

How challenging is it to balance being aware of others while staying grounded in one's own identity and values? Many people get caught up in comparing themselves to others and trying to control others' lives, rather than focusing on their own unique preferences and values. One should be extremely careful with this because it can lead to a superficial understanding of happiness and success. When ..

In recent years, unique individuals who could turn typically negative traits into something seemingly positive have become rare. These distinctive characters, once prevalent in the 90s and early 2000s, are now less common due to shifting trends and changing public figures. For example, personas like Paris Hilton from the early 2000s are not as prominent today, and ✨even Hilton herself has adapte..