How Can Mutual Value Be Judged by Others’ Disrespectful Treatment?

How Can One’s Mutual Value Be Judged Based on How Others Treat Them, Especially in Disrespectful Ways?

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Some individuals judge mutual value based on how others treat them, even if it’s in an exploitative or dismissive manner (attitudes that involve taking advantage of others).🤭

Generally, people with a strong sense of self-control and taste are likely to reject dismissive manner, as they find such behavior rude and counterproductive.

On the other hand, individuals who lack a clear sense of taste or self-awareness might find value in being treated unfavorably. 🤭

Consequently, they might even see others worth reflected in how poorly others treat them, creating a distorted view of self-worth and relationships.

This dynamic is particularly prevalent in some Asian cultures, where social hierarchy is emphasized over individual self-expression or authenticity.

This can lead to situations where such individuals accept or even seek out behavior that seems disrespectful or exploitative. 🤭

Such behavior can indeed be counterproductive and self-defeating.

Why do they believe that the ruder and harsher others are to them, the higher the others’ value is perceived?

Additionally, how can they view relationships with those who neglect them as being of 'great benefit'?

It’s merely a reflection of other people’s personalities that they are treated rudely. It’s not indicative of a higher value of others and a lower value of themselves. Disrespect and mutual value are not measured proportionally or inversely.


Especially speaking to Chinese or Southeast Asians:
🐕You are not dogs.
🐶You must accept reality based on factual relationships, not others' attitudes.

Stop engaging in these self-destructive behaviors.

We must encourage deeper self-awareness and foster environments where personal tastes and values are respected.